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Your Journey To Success

Hagit Love — Sat, 02 Apr 2011 20:26:11 GMT

Your Journey To Success

Success is more than economic gains, titles, and degrees.
Planning for success is about planning and mapping out all the aspects of your life (your journey).
Similar to a trip planning, you need to define the following details: origin, destination, vehicle, backpack, landmarks, and route.
Knowing and understanding all of these will certainly help you enjoy your journey.

Origin: Who you are (or where you are?)
A journey has a starting point. Your origin is who you are right now. To gain insights about yourself, you need to look closely at your beliefs, values, and principles aside from your economic, professional, cultural, and civil status. Moreover, you can also reflect on your experiences to give you insights on your good and not-so-good traits, skills, knowledge, strengths, and weaknesses.

Destination: A vision of who you want to be (where you want to go?)
“Who do want to be?” this is your vision. Now it is important that you know yourself so that you would have a clearer idea of who you want to be; and the things you want to change whether they are attitudes, habits, or points of view. If you hardly know yourself, then your vision and targets for the future would also be unclear. Your destination should cover all the aspects of your being: the physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual.

Vehicle: Your Mission
A vehicle is the means by which you can reach your destination. It can be an analogy to your mission or vocation in life. To a great extent, your mission would depend on what you know about yourself.

Travel Bag: Your knowledge, skills, and attitude
Food, drinks, medicines, and other traveling necessities are contained in a bag. Applying this concept to your life map, you also bring with you certain knowledge, skills, and attitudes. These determine your competence and help you in attaining your vision. Given such, there is a need for you to assess what knowledge, skills, and attitudes you have at present and what you need to gain along the way. This two-fold assessment will give you insights on your landmarks or measures of success.

Landmarks and Route
Landmarks confirm if you are on the right track while the route determines the travel time. Thus, in planning out your life, you also need to have landmarks and a route. These landmarks are your measures of success. These measures must be specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and time bound.

Anticipate Turns, Detours, and Potholes
The purpose of your life map is to minimize hasty and spur-of-the-moment decisions that can make you lose your way. But oftentimes our plans are modified along the way due to some inconveniences, delays, and other situations beyond our control. Like in any path, there are turns, detours, and potholes thus; we must anticipate them and adjust accordingly.

Enjoy your journey

Seven Laws of Success, By Deepak Chopra

Hagit Love — Sat, 22 Jan 2011 15:14:51 GMT

The way to fulfilment - it's amazing. Just Listen to this and be inspired.

I hope you will enjoy it as much as I have.

Happy and Healthy Living,

Hagit T. Dayan

Enhance your abundance in 3 simple steps

Hagit Love — Fri, 29 Oct 2010 22:22:15 GMT

Abundance -

The universe contains so much abundance, enough for us all. Yes! Even for you. You simply have to notice it, want it, and believe you deserve to have and enjoy it.

Learn how to enhance your abundance in 3 simple steps.

The first step would be to notice the abundance that already exists in your close surrounding. Open your closet and notice how many cloths you have, the stack of CD's, the rich variety of music that you have collected. Move into your shower-room and notice how many utensils you have. You have shampoo, soap, toothpaste, toothbrush, facial towel, wash-towel, mirror, sponge, toilet-paper, brush, hand cream and so on. Isn't this amazing, so many things in the place where you actually spend so little time -- that is a real proof! Abundance exists.

Now I have a question for you - how many times did it happen to you that you went to the supermarket, and it took you so long to choose which type of cheese you wished to get. You couldn't decide since you came across such a variety of options.

Look at your home, your office, your neighborhood -- look and notice the many things that are there.

Now make a list of all the things you own... Just start doing it and after about 10 minutes you will get tired, because you will find that the list is so long, it could take you hours.... Now do you believe me?!... Be aware of this abundance and just be blessed by it.

The second step would be to enjoy your abundance because you deserve it.

Now that you are aware of the abundance that surrounds you each and every day, just let yourself enjoy it. There are many beautiful things that you save for special occasions or for special guests. It might be that you are saving things so they would not come to an end or be destroyed. Just leave all that make use of things today, enjoy them now, enjoy the abundance you have, what good does it make if you have something and you don't use it??? I once received a golden pen as a gift and for a whole year I kept it in the box. It seemed too expensive for me to use. One day I decided to take it with me to work, and believe me, it was such a pleasure I enjoyed writing with it, and I felt so rich and abundant.

If you have such a pen, I highly recommend using it. If you have expensive silverware, give yourself the gift and use it today, give it to the most important person - yourself. Enjoy the abundance that you have. Treat yourself with love. You deserve abundance.

The third step would be to enhance your focus on abundance because what you focus on enhance.

Expand and focus on the abundance in your life by bringing in symbols of what reminds you of prosperity. Think to yourself for a moment what abundance and prosperity mean to you, and what represents it in your eyes. Bring those symbols into your household or workplace.

For example, I place inside my house a bowl. In the bowl I put many coins and a Citrine stone and positioned it at the south-western corner of the house. According to Chinese traditions that corner represents the source of abundance and riches. I have a picture of a treasure box filled with jewelry, gold and silver hanged on the wall in my home office, my bookshelf contains books on successful people and companies and other books teaching of the laws of the universe in relation to abundance and prosperity. A beautiful Citrine colony rests on my desk and I can attest to the fact that it really does attract abundance into my life. Citrine is the best of all crystals to attract money and wealth. It is said that it is the best crystal drawing unlimited wealth, abundance and prosperity.

You can find many more examples, find those who appeal the most to you,and use them.

These things require only a little effort, but can expand the sense of abundance and the abundance itself in your life. Try it and be abundant.

Happy and Healthy Living to you

Find more great simple steps to a great life: Health and Happiness - The simple and fun way

21 Simple ways to enhance your happiness

Hagit Love — Sun, 10 Oct 2010 20:12:57 GMT

"What you focus on enhances". These simple and fun ways will help you focus on the good things in life, and will help you achieve your birthright to be happy. Try it and enjoy it.

1. The things you love - Every one of you have things that make you feel happy, things that you really love doing. Go do yours. Take a dance lesson, watch a comedy show, go to the cinema, play the piano, eat a gourmet dinner, anything that makes you feel happy and great.

2. Treats - Treat yourself to a pleasure - you deserve it.Take a bath, have a massage, do a pedicure, eat a good healthy meal and enjoy it. Give yourself a gift and treat yourself with love.

3. People - Spend time with people you love, spend time with people who are happy and have good energy, join a group of people who share the same interests as you do.Spend time with highly motivated people who can uplift you and motivate you.

4. Music - Listen to good and uplifting music, music that makes you happy, music of the kind that as you listen to it, takes your soul to a place that wants to dance.music that makes you enjoy every minute.Increase the amount of music in your life and you will enjoy your lives immensely.

5. Television - Choose to watch good TV. TV that raises your spirit and makes you smile, you can choose to watch some kind of a comedy show, or perhaps a documentary about famous leaders, people who have made it to the top of their achievements.

6. News - Stop watching the news. Who needs to listen to the news dozens of times a day?No one, it's just a waste of time. Choose doing something better with your time.

7. Magazines - Subscribe to inspiring magazines, in print or online, there is a great variety to choose from. Subscribe to newsletter that focuses on good and happy things. Enrich your world with things that will nurture you.

8. Internet - Make your internet homepage one of a good website.There are so many great websites that focus on good things, Google the word happiness or joy, find a website you like and make it your homepage.

9. Events - Go to inspiring and uplifting events, attend a workshop or a lecture about the things you love or the things you want to achieve, go to a party. Go to events that are for your highest good, it will benefit you and you will meet lovely people.

10. Photographs - Open your photo album and take out the photos that best capture the joyful moments in your life. Find a way to display your favorite photos in a place where you can see them all the time.It's a great way to focus on the happy times you have experienced in your life.

11. Movies - Watch inspiring movies, movies that are filled with love and serenity,watch funny movies that makes you laugh, take your family and go watch a Disney Pixar movie, these movies are great way to have fun and spend time with family, friends and even by with yourself.

12. Books - Books can be a great source of inspiration and motivation. Read books about people who succeeded in the area, in which you want to succeed, read great men/women biographies, read self-help books. Choose to read whatever serves your highest good.

13. Radio - Listen to good radio shows, I highly recommend Hay house Radio, or Opera Radio.

14. The happy journal - Buy yourself a notebook and write in it every day/week all the great things that happened to you during that day/week. It is very powerful and it will help you focus on the good things in your life.

15. Letters and emails - Send yourself an email or a letter, saying to yourself how wonderful and great you are. Send yourself reminder that you are important and that it is time to do something to enhance your happiness.

16. Physical activity - Do some kind of physical activity, like: power walk, run, dance, and swim, find the type of exercise you like.You will feel and be more energetic, more vital, and healthier.

17. Food - Eat healthy good food, which will nurture your body with good ingredients, so you will be healthier and have more vitality.

18. Good Morning - Open the Day with things that raise your Spirits. Pray and think of the great day you are about to have, imagining yourself doing things you love. Give thanks about the good things you are blessed with. Play some music and dance for few minutes, read a chapter from your inspiring book, or your magazine, anything to open the day focusing on the good side of life. You will notice how your days will suddenly turn good.

19. Good Night - Fall asleep with something relaxing, and it better be positive. Meditation or a relaxing music can be great ways to close the day. Your sleep will improve tremendously and will be deeper and more relaxing.

20. Compliments - Compliment yourself for taking control of your life and for doing all these things that enhance your happiness. You are an amazing lovable person and you deserve to be happy.

21. Pay it forward - Last but not list; send this to your family and friends, so they can enhance their happiness too.

These things are so fun, simple and easy to do.

Doing these things will help you focus on Goodness, Love, Joy, Abundance,

Growth, Health, Happiness, Wealth, Pleasure,Success, Fulfillment,

Wholeness, Peace, Openness, Friendship, Family, Beauty, Excitement,

Power, Creativity, Inspiration, Courage, Awareness, Fun, Celebration

and more.

Try it to see for yourself

and simply enjoy life.

Happy and healthy living,

Hagit Dayan

Hagit Dayan - Creator, writer, artist, entrepreneur, a happy & healthy person

Co-Author of the book "Health and Happiness - the simple and fun way" ,

Author of the book "Love, Life, Joy"

Life, by Mother Tereza

Hagit Love — Sat, 09 Oct 2010 21:00:21 GMT

"Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.

Life is beauty, admire it.

Life is bliss, taste it.

Life is a dream, realize it.

Life is a challenge, meet it.

Life is a duty, complete it.

Life is a game, play it.

Life is costly, care for it.

Life is wealth, keep it.

Life is love, enjoy it.

Life is mystery, know it.

Life is a promise, fulfill it.

Life is sorrow, overcome it.

Life is a song, sing it.

Life is a struggle, accept it.

Life is tragedy, confront it.

Life is an adventure, dare it.

Life is luck, make it.

Life is too precious, do not destroy it.

Life is life, fight for it."

This poem by Mother Tereza simplifies life, read it, read it again and pay it forward.

What an amazing woman she was, every word touches my heart.

Happy and Healthy Living,

Hagit Dayan

Co-Author of the book "Health and Happiness - the simple and fun way",

Author of the book "Love, Life, Joy"

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How to Get What You Want in Life

Hagit Love — Sun, 03 Oct 2010 21:02:03 GMT

Your life is what you choose to make of it. Your life is how you choose to create it, you are in charge!

You write the script, you are the actor as well as the director, you are the author, editor and publisher, you are the whole team. You can create whatever you wish in your life, but you have to take responsibility for it.

I am certain you all want to see more of these beautiful qualities: more love; happiness; beauty and prosperity, more goodness, peace and serenity...

In fact... all these qualities live within you! So... Begin with yourself and create what you want.

"You must be the change that you want to see in the world" Mahatma Gandhi

This quote exemplifies the connection between you and the world, this quote exemplifies what you must do to achieve what you want in your life.

When you are honest and full of love, you bring forth these qualities and they merge with your life.

Anything that you put your attention to increases. And so, focus on love, beauty and goodness, focus on happiness, joy and abundance, focus on fulfillment, growth and success, or anything you would like in your life.

When you add love, happiness and goodness unto the things that you do for yourself and for the world, you in fact give to your surroundings. You add light and joy and love into this world.

Let us love, enjoy, respect, hug, and speak the truth.

Let us be loyal to ourselves and to what we really want.

Let us act this way from this moment on.

Don't just believe it - Try it and find out for yourself.

And.....

I hope that you will feel joy, experience love, live in abundance and feel and see the light.

Happy and Healthy Living

Hagit

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Life is a Celebration

Hagit Love — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 20:15:33 GMT

Life is a Celebration - Celebrate it with great joy

On my birthday people asked me how I celebrate my birthday.

My answer was: "I celebrate life every day".

I want to share with you how you can do it too.

The most important thing - what you focus on enhances, this equation works well in all aspects of life.

For example, if we would thank the good things that happen in our lives and be joyous- we will also have more and more of those things and we will feel more joyous. If we would treat every person with love and respect, the love will expand into every area of our lives.

Try it with celebrating life.. and see how great it works

Have you ever thought of the word celebration and what it meant to you? Well, close your eyes for a minute and think of the word celebration. Take a few deep breaths and then write the words that come to your minds.

When I think of celebration I hear happiness, people, beauty, abundance, music, laughter, togetherness, gifts, colors, love, fun, and joy.

After you finish writing it all, read it again to yourselves and....live life in festivity.

Experience the things you wrote in your list. Listen to music, tell a joke, bring more colors into your lives, and enjoy what it is you are doing. Watch a funny film, buy gifts for your loved ones, just for no reason. Meet interesting people, notice the abundance in your lives, and treat yourselves and your surrounding with love.

How much fun, what a celebration!

Happy and Healthy living,

Hagit Dayan

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Happy Birthday to me

Hagit Love — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 21:03:31 GMT

Tomorrow is my birthday and I must say I feel just great.
All the universe supports me, the festivities have already started, and it will continue this year.
Then a second before I celebrate the occasion in which I came in to the world, I want to wish you all a great year full of good surprises, a year full of love and joy.
Life is beautiful Enjoy them
Love,
Hagit Dayan

Find how wonderful you are

Hagit Love — Sun, 12 Sep 2010 21:04:48 GMT

Compliment yourselves, believe in yourselves, and give yourselves credit.

You are wonderful people; each and every one of you has many talents. You have achieved much in your lives. You are dear people. All you have to do is acknowledge it, believe in it and cultivate it. I once heard a dear person say – “The perfect person for being myself – is me”. And so, the most perfect person for being you - is you”. It is a wonderful sentence.

Please remember it and give yourself credit for the wonderful person you are. Believe in yourself and in what you are able to do. Believe in your ability to love and be happy.

Believe in your inner light and that you can create so much. Even the sky is not the limit. Believe in the multitude of possibilities for you. Believe that you can believe!

Give yourselves a kind word. Stand in front of the mirror and say a kind word to yourselves.

Give yourselves credit for things you are successful in, for things you have accomplished, for gifts you have given to the world, for your good qualities, for the beauty within you.

Thank yourself for the beautiful plant that you have placed in your house, for the good cake you baked, or for the beautiful picture you hung on the wall. Let yourselves enjoy who you are.

Two exercises that will assist you

First exercise – complimenting one’s self

Make a list of things you love about yourself. For example: “I am smart”, “I am kind”, “I have a great sense of humor”, “I have pretty eyes”, “I am very friendly and I make people feel good about themselves”.

Make this list and within it you will find yourselves. You will find out how loveable you are. You will find out your useful and good qualities.

First you might need to strain your brain a little but the rest will soon to follow.

You are wonderful people. Much love to you…

Here is an example of the one of my attribute lists:

Complimenting Myself:

I am filled with love and give love to the universe
I am kind and helpful
I am friendly
I am beautiful
I am filled with happiness and optimism and I share it with my surroundings all the time
I am aware of my ability to create in my life
I am able to solve any dilemma
I eat healthy and take care of my body
I am intelligent

Second exercise – Accomplishments

Make a list of all the things you have accomplished in your daily life, things you feel you have been successful in. Note these things and add a few of the sentiments you that have felt while achieving them. Describe them in detail. Experience once more those good sentiments through the writing.

Later you will be able to relive the event and sentiments while reading them once more. You can also add more small achievements every time you recall them. Soon enough more and more insights will come to you as you realize that the act of adding achievements is the greatest success.

Here is a list of my achievements in the recent past:

My Achievements:

One of my paintings was hung in my parents’ dining room. The painting is pretty and expresses joy.
I made wonderful breakfast for my friends and they all enjoyed it.
I finished my Bachelors and Masters Degree
I help people find the good and beautiful within them
I helped a friend buy a shirt that looks good on him
I attended a good workshop on attracting abundance and it helped me attract the things I wanted in my life
I was successful in managing a project at work
Now read what you wrote and see how wonderful you are.

Happy and Healthy Living

Hagit Dayan

Hagit Dayan - Creator, writer, artist, entrepreneur, a happy and healthy person,

Co-Author of the book "Health and Happiness - the simple and fun way" , Author of the book "Love, Life, Joy"

Making the Amazon dream come true

Hagit Love — Sun, 12 Sep 2010 21:03:09 GMT

Now It's time for one of my dreams.

Two Books published on Amazon, The world biggest book store -WOW.

It feels great

And that is the reality now